chump?

over the course of the past few months, i've come to realize that one of my biggest pet peeves is that i absolutely HATE ppl that take advantage of others.  it gets to the point where i wont even like to acknowledge your presence around me if i feel like youre taking advantage of me...

i know i have the personality where i'm very accomodating to other individuals.. i like to help out.  its the way i am.  but its been a trend that i've noticed that with certain individuals.. once u give.. thats all it is.  its just give give give.. and no one else gives back.  this, in turn, makes my life a living hell because me.. being the 'nice one' will constantly help on several occasions until i'm SMART enough to realize that other ppl are taking advantage.  but by then its too late, because the precedence has already been set....

does this mean that i have a big word CHUMP on my forehead?  i know in most cases, individuals know that they can come to me, because they know i'll help out.  or in other cases, they know that they can come to me because they know that i'm not a hard ass like others (at least in the work environment)

i know that this is both a good and a bad thing.. but when should i draw the damn line???

on another note.. a friend referred me to this site.  check it out!  its hilarious!!

www.urbandictionary.com

i think i may actually start to update again.. i need to record my memories so that i may actually remember what i've been doing with my life.  i swear.. last week feels like last month. 

this is what happens when you get old....

just wanted to tell u guys, i'm up in buffalo for a week!!!  hip hip horray!!!!  heehee.. i miss u guys already and i'll see u soon.

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